[blog] what make us overeat?

Hello, everyone! I hope you are doing awesome today….

What make us overeat?

It’s pretty much the downfall of every diet you try. You’re eating the right foods, you’re exercising, but…you’re overeating. Each time you reach for a serving of apple pie, that second piece of chicken breast, or another slice of pizza, you’re probably not thinking about how it might wreak havoc with your diet plans. But afterwards, you’ll regret it and it will leave you wondering just how much is too much.

It is common for many dieters to fall into the trap of binge eating while on a diet. They’re not really hungry, but they can’t stop themselves from reaching for more food.


How many times have you heard a person look at someone who has some weight to lose and say they have no willpower? That must surely be the reason they are overweight, right? If they’d only stop putting food in their mouth, they’d lose weight. Others may say that the person has developed habits that they need to change in order to be successful at losing weight.  There may be more behind the story that we do not know.

A person is overeating when they continue to eat (large portions), even when they are not hungry. Most people in America overeat, which is why obesity has grown steadily over the past few decades.

What makes a person overeat if they aren’t hungry? Is it lack of willpower, as some people assume? Or is it something that has become a habit that can be changed?  hmmmmm…..

Definition of Willpower

The definition of willpower is having control over ones actions, and being able to control impulses.  In other words, you set the course. Willpower is not a constant thing. It can change with your emotions. For real. For instance, when you are feeling good about yourself, your willpower may be strong. When something has happened in your life that gets your down or causes stress, you may feel that you have to struggle to maintain your willpower.

Definition of Habit

We are all creatures of habit. The definition of habit is an acquired behavior pattern that, when repeated often enough, becomes involuntary. A lot of people reach for food without even thinking. In fact, at the end of the day most people couldn’t accurately tell you what they ate during the day because they weren’t paying attention.

So which is it that really keeps you overeating? To some degree, both willpower and habit contribute to overeating. Here is where psychology kicks in: you need to have willpower in order to break the pattern of overeating and change the habit. But there is more at play than just these two things.

When a person is unable to stay on a diet, for whatever reason, he or she becomes depressed. This works against their willpower and changes the psyche of the mind to believe there is no reason to try any longer, making it easier for the person to fall back on old habits. But, developing new habits can help give you the fortitude to sustain your willpower.

Ways to Stop Overeating

  • Learn what a healthy portion size is and stick to it. Americans have gotten used to “super” sizes, but we don’t really need to eat that much. In fact, a healthy portion is much smaller.
  • Divide your plate into sections. Don’t deprive yourself from sampling your favorite foods. Instead of taking a big portion of lasagna to fill your plate, take a small portion and fill the rest of the plate with healthy vegetables or salad to help fill you.
  • Drink water during a meal or when you are tempted to eat outside of a meal to create a feeling of being. You may be mistaking hunger for being dehydrated.
  • Eat fiber rich foods. Fiber absorbs water and expands in the stomach, creating a feeling of being full.
  • Don’t “taste-test” your food while cooking. There are calories in those little spoonfuls you’re taking during meal preparation. You may be testing so much that you’ve had half a meal before you even sit down at the dinner table.
  • Eat healthy fruit desserts. Instead of chocolate cake, try a bowl of fruit salad. It’ll satisfy your sweet-tooth, while give you a feeling of indulgence.
  • Keep a journal. I highly recommend this.  Write down every single bit of food and beverage you put in your mouth. It will be eye opening at first. After a while, your habits will change and you won’t need the journal anymore.

Ok, there you have it! I firmly believe by changing just a few habits, you will find your willpower increases, you’ll lose weight and feel healthier!

Please let me know what you think about this blog!  Please leave me a comment!

4 Responses to “[blog] what make us overeat?”

  1. obedi Says:

    I have prayed for years for God to send me someone to keep me accountable and according to no one showing up, His answer is a big fat ” no”. I don’t understand it. I am too much of a hypocrit to do this on my own, unless He will miraculously change me someday. Do you know of a place?

  2. obedi Says:

    I have prayed for years for the Lord to help me find someone to keep me accountable and His resounding answer ( according to no one showing up) is a big fat No! So, I am perturbed when people say, ” find a friend” and God won’t let me have anyone. I don’t understand it.

  3. Julie Says:

    I have such a hard time with food.
    Food has always been a connection to family, fun, and happiness.; and soda, as it was a special treat growing up, has become a coping mechanism for anxiety and stress.

    I cognitively know that food and soda have nothing to do with my feeling better, being more happy, less stressed etc; but I more or less feel out of control without the food.

    I think a tip worth mentioning is being honest with yourself; AND asking for help. Find someone you trust and are comfortable sharing the worst of the worst habits, emotions and triggers for binging, overeating, or whatever “food issue” you struggle with AND the extent of the it. (There is no set definition for what constitutes as a binge. For some it is an ice cream cone while on a diet, for others it is 4 candy bars and a cookie.)

    Ask this person if they are willing to meet with you by setting consistent appointments, lunch dates, phone calls or whatever specifically for discussing this topic. (Self introspection of the last day, week, 2 weeks, or whatever of circumstances, emotions, guilt, etc.)

    Unbiased perspective and accountability for self-introspection enables identification the food issues and/or triggers, relieves isolation, and provides encouragement.

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